Your Concerns | Your Positive Answers |
| “What if I never get pregnant?” | Just because I haven’t gotten pregnant yet, is there any evidence or reason to believe I will never get pregnant? There are a number of different ways to be a mom. |
| “I feel angry at my body; it’s letting me down.” | My body is doing the best it can. This is a very complicated process. We may need a little more practice, more fun, and time to get it right. |
| “How can I not be stressed—everyone else can get pregnant!” | I am not everyone else. I don’t know every pregnant person’s story. I don’t have to compare myself to anyone else. |
| “The stress is getting to be too much!” | I can go to yoga, a mindfulness class, acupuncture or see a healthcare expert for advice. |
| “I feel so out of control.” | Yup, much of conception is out of my control. But, I am doing well with that which is in my control. I can continue to do that well, and acknowledge what is out of my hands. |
I personally experienced this situation before wherein conceiving was a tough process for me. It came to a point my husband and I got tired of waiting and feel like we just want to give up. We even ending up having fights because some of my girl friends are already pregnant and expecting a baby. It’s really difficult when you are under pressure of everything. But then God heard our prayers. 
It’s really difficult to conceive when you are in great pressure and stress. Some factors might even be the center of attention like having some when your husband might feel tired of trying and trying and you as a wife feel jealous for other women who are pregnant and have kids already. But then patience is always a virtue, God knows when is the right time, so just have the time of your life. Maybe not now, but for sure it will come.